Sunday, June 14, 2009

Being feminist again

I have to pay attention to my dressing when I’m out with family or friends, in order to portray certain good image

I have to be careful with how I dress when I’m alone, in case I attract the wrong kind of attention from perverted men

So, the only time I should wear whatever I like, only in my bedroom, for my mirror to see?

Why must society be so unfairly biased against women?

Why laugh me off as being idealistic?

9 comments:

Sean said...

what do you wanna wear if you're allowed to wear anything you want?

Nuevo Viaje said...

whatever that suits my mood, reflecting the original me LOL

Wilson Ng said...

i think u shud wear things u feel comfy...

men are perverted by nature...
if u tend to wear super low skirt or sure low cut shirts, u tend to get attractions...

Sean said...

I second that, unless of course he's gay, which would pretty much mean he'll be staring at EV when he wears hot pants with bulging assets.

Nuevo Viaje said...

lol if men can use "natural instinct" as excuse to be perverts, then does that mean that they can get away with crude stares, perverted jeers, molestation and rape?

Anonymous said...

I guess if a girl wants to wear something sexy, she'll have to accept the fact that there will be some guys who will stare or strip you with their eyes, and whatever not. Part and parcel. Of course, not all guys are like that. But some are, and we can't control that. So just wear whatever you want. If they stare, so be it. When we women approach 40 or 50, we will start yearning for guys to look us up and down. Might as well enjoy it now :)

Bottom line is, no need to bother what others think. Just do as you please :D And wear as you please. It is a pleasure to be looked at :)

Mellissa Nonis said...

From my view, men are perverted...whether you cover or not, if they wanna mentally strip you, they'll do it anyway.

So just be comfortable and be yourself. If you wanna wear something and afraid to wear it alone or with your family, wear when you're with your friends...we don't care anyway...

I'm so used to getting the opposite from perverted men, that now I wear whatever I like and I'm only more cautious when I'm out alone...

Leonard said...

Hey. CHiilax lah !

So what if you attract perverted men attention. Not that they can do anything to u also wht. (Just make sure there's someone beside you).

As for the family thing. I believe the keyword is Dress Well and Dress Appropriately according to context. THt's fine enuf i guess.

Peace

Anonymous said...

"Being UN-feminist" is a more appropriate as a title