Does relationship quality changes at every of life’s transition? Is it too much to expect some commitment to words already said? Is it too much to ask for some sincerity in the many years of relationship? Is it wrong to expect the same loyalty and faith that I give out to be returned to me?
Or is this an indication that these relationships no longer matter as much? Is it true that people come and go as days go on? Is it possible that if the old ones don’t go, the new ones won’t come? Are the new ones more interesting that the old ones need to be gotten rid off?
I saved my emotions for the old ones; I maintained my loyalty and sincerity for these old relationships, but time and again I am hit with the reality that I am doing things one sided only
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Yes dear Sel, that is what life is all about isnt it? We always try to change it.. But at times, it just goes the exact opposite way we want life to be, and there will always be times when we just want to give up, and throw ourselves into some empty room and sob. But after thats all done, we come out like a brand new person! Get up girl, you know what you are capable of!
Cheer up!;)
hey there, thanks for the reminder. i have always believed that whatever pulls me down will only make me wiser and stronger, but in down times, these words are forgotten. If one or two person disappoint me, that's still ok. But when a group of people let me down at the same time, I can't help but wonder what I've done
people who have high expectations on various things are more likely to feel disappointment. but that doesnt mean we shouldnt expect anything out of life. having these high expectations is what makes us stand out among the average. if you are living above-average life, you will find yourself disappointed often. but in this big big world, there will always be someone who truly understands you and share your thoughts! just that maybe, just maybe, you havent notice that person all along~;)
cheers.
Life is an ever changing journey. As much as everyone hopes for certain things to remain perpetual, the cruel truth is---everything is transient. Moving on would be the best step. :)
everyone is changing through stages of life. point of view towards relationship wil be different.. different thoughts doesn't mean will change the faith n loyalty.. it will only bring the relationship to a place that more perfect n more happiness.. different ppl different thoughts.. n for sure there will b someone maintains the relationship for the same reason o same feelings like it used to.. One heart probably can only has a person love most, so if dun let go the old one, how to let the new one to live inside the heart.. of coz not forgetting the old one, but put it in the long-term memory.. is juz memory.. the new one is the future.. if the feelings are not same anymore, of coz let it go, u will feel the freedom of sadness.. human will seeks for perfect.. so i thk if will interested to the new one, sure better than the old one.. if not how to fallen in love with the new one.. i dunno y suddenly thk so but no matter wat happen, take ur time n cheer up.. i know u can do it.. because u r selena.. ^^
the old me had always been very forgiving when others step over me, and hence now i am seen as someone who wouldn't mind being taken for granted, someone who doesn't hold grudges against those who hurt my feelings. but well, another lesson learnt in life...do not let other people take advantage of my mild temper!
i didn't expect such a short but ambiguous post to attract so many wise advice. thanks a lot, y'all!
yup.. learn the lessons and self-improve in next experience.. but not remembering the feeling of anger and upset.. need not to hurt urself bcoz of someone tat not worth to..
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