questions questions...but who to answer me?

is it because we're girls, thats why we go through so many emotional ups and downs?

is it because we're adolescents, thats why we are extra sensitive to people around us?

is it because we're too idealistic, thats why we find so many things unsatisfactory?

is it because we're Asians, thats why we always choose to avoid rather than confront problems?
and if so...
is it because we're afraid to trust people, thats why we bottle up problems inside?
is it because we want to avoid the pain of investing more emotions by reliving the story?
is it because we refuse to burden others, thinking they might not be bothered?

is it impossible to live in peace with other people? yet, is it perfect happiness living in isolation?

is there such thing as perfect happiness?